Proof That Your Lover Is Cheating In An Online Relationship

Does your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend spend way too much time on the computer?

If they do and if you do not know what they are doing, you may be wondering if your significant other is having an online relationship.

Unfortunately, online relationships are often viewed differently, but that doesn’t mean that they can’t be considered cheating.

The Affair

When it comes to relationships that develop online, there are typically two sides to the story. The first side is that of the cheater or the individual carrying on the affair.

If you ever catch your significant other having an online relationship, they may claim that it isn’t really cheating.

This is because sometimes a physical meeting never takes place. So, essentially, your partner has never kissed or had physical sex with the person at the other end of the computer.

The second side of the story, where online relationships are concerned, is the side of the husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend who catches their partner acting inappropriately online.

For starters, it is important to know that many individuals nowadays don’t just talk online.

There are social networking websites, dating websites, and other similar websites that make it easier for internet users to meet up with each other. Just because you are told that a physical meeting did not occur, it does not mean that you are getting the truth. In fact, a meeting may have been planned right around the corner.

In keeping with viewing emotional affairs from the viewpoint of those who are being “cheated,” on, it is important to examine the harm caused. Phone sex is a popular activity for couples in long distance relationships. This may be occurring or it may be done online.

Despite the fact that physical contact has still not been made, inappropriate actions are still being performed. Plus, even if sexy or seductive emails are the only thing exchanged, it can still hurt. For many men and women, emotional affairs can be just as painful and as heart breaking.


Does your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend spend way too much time on the computer?


So, do you suspect that your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend is having an inappropriate relationship online. If you do, there are a number of steps that you can take to get answers. For starters, try to enter the computer room.

If it is locked, there is a good sign that something inappropriate is going on. Next, when you enter the room, place all of your focus on the computer screen. Does your partner quickly change what is appearing on the screen? Next, approach them, as if you intend to give them a hug or a kiss.

Towards the bottom of the screen should be a task bar. This bar will give you information on programs that are open, including pornographic websites, video players, and so forth.

If you suspect that your partner is having inappropriate relationships online, it is a good idea to first think about your actions. Unfortunately, many men and women are so surprised when they do catch what is happening that they don’t know how to act. Be prepared.

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Do you want to limit computer use, get rid of the computer altogether, take a break, or completely cut ties? There are a number of benefits to having a set plan in place before you confront your cheating spouse.

Remember that online relationships can often develop into more than just a few flirty emails here and there.

How Cheaters Use the Internet to Seek New Romance

Are you in a relationship? If you are, cheating may be a concern of yours. After all, cheating is an issue that many of us have become alto familiar with. You may have been cheated on in the past, you may have known someone else who has been, or you may have learned all about cheating from the television and movies.

If you suspect that your partner is cheating on you, they may be using the internet to do so. Why? Because the internet has made it very easy for cheaters to seek new romance. Not only is the internet making online affairs easy and convenient, but many cheaters think the internet makes it harder to get caught.

Unfortunately for them and luckily for you, the computer often tells the tale.


As for how men and women use the internet to seek new romance online, there are a number of different approaches taken. One of those is social networking websites. Now, it is important to know that social networking sites, like MySpace, have increased in popularity over the past few years.

Just because your partner uses a social networking website, it does not mean that they are cheating on you. They may truly just be interested in connecting with old friends. Be cautious, however, of a profile that you cannot see or access or the appearance of old girlfriends.

Dating websites are also how many cheaters use the internet to seek new romance online. Unfortunately, dating websites are more risky than social networking websites. If your husband, wife, girlfriend, or boyfriend uses an online dating site, they may have the intention of actually meeting the person at the other end of the computer.

This is when an affair stops becoming just an emotional affair and often starts becoming a physical affair. If you ever find that your partner is using an online dating website, be aware because there is a good chance that they are cheating on you or intend to start soon.

As it was previously stated, the internet does make it easier for cheaters to start romances online, but it is also relatively easy to catch a cheater online. To get started, check your computer’s internet history. To do so, open up a new internet explorer window. Along the top of the page, you will see the history icon.


Do you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you? If you do, you may be looking for proof.


This icon is in the shape of a clock with a green arrow. Clicking on this will tell you all of the websites visited in the past few days. Be suspicious of no information, as it may mean that the history was purposely cleared.

A keylogger program, also occasionally referred to as a keyword tracker, can also be installed on your computer. These programs work to capture each word that is typed on your computer. If you think that your partner is communicating with their sex partner or partners online through email or in chat room sessions, you may be able to see exactly what it is they are saying.

These types of programs can be expensive, but they can also provide you with the proof that you need.

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You can also always take the direct approach. If your partner is using the computer and acting secretive, demand to see what they are looking at. Walk over to the computer immediately, request that they get up and you take their seat.

View the computer’s internet history immediately. This allows you to see what they have been looking at online before giving a computer savvy cheater time to cover their tracks.

Got a Cheating Partner? How and Why You Should Check Phone Records

Do you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you? If you do, you may be looking for proof. One of the most common ways that this proof is obtained is by spying. Unfortunately, you may be uncomfortable doing so or you may not have the financial resources needed to hire a private investigator.

If that is the case, there is another way that you can try to catch a cheating spouse. You can do so with their cell phone.

Many cheating spouses use their cell phones as an easy means of communication. In fact, did you know that many will use their cell phones as opposed to the family phone? Many do so because there is less of a chance that you or someone else, like one of your children, will pickup the phone instead.

Since cell phones are a common means of communication for cheating spouses, you should use this to your advantage.

What it is important to know about cell phones is that they keep very accurate records. All cell phones, even those that are older, keep a call log. Often times, the calls that are made, the calls that are received, and the calls that are missed are recorded.

You should be provided with a date and a time. If you can get a hold of your partner’s cell phone, do it. Even if you have to grab the phone in the middle of the night and check its history in the bathroom, do so.


If your partner is calling one number multiple times a day or everyday, they may be cheating on you. In addition to checking the call log, also examine picture messages and text messages.


When checking your partner’s cell phone for suspicious activity, you will want to be on the lookout for names or telephone numbers that you do not recognize. Also, look for constant calls to or from a certain number.

If your partner is calling one number multiple times a day or everyday, they may be cheating on you. In addition to checking the call log, also examine picture messages and text messages. These are easier to delete, but many cheaters do not take the simple step needed to do so because they don’t believe that they will get caught.

In addition to the cell phone itself, you can also use cell phone bills as method to catch a cheater. This works best if you are married to your partner or if you live with them, as it should be easy for you to gain access to their cell phone.

Lookout For Unknown Numbers 

Does your partner’s cell phone bill list the phone numbers that are called or the phone numbers that text messages were sent to? If it does, be on the lookout for unknown numbers or repeated communication.

Although not all cell phone bills itemize information, like on the phone calls received or placed, many companies do give you the option of doing so. If you are the one who is responsible for paying the cell phone bill or if you are married, you may be able to change the format of your partner’s cell phone bill.

A quick call or email to the cell phone company should be enough to catch your cheating partner the next time that the phone bill arrives.

The above mentioned steps are just a few of the many easy ways that you can use your partner’s cell phone and cell phone bill to see if they are cheating on you. If you see that your partner hangs up the phone whenever you enter the room or if they lower their voice, there is a good chance that they are hiding something from you.

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